Zinda hoon mein.... Bechara!
Pakistan mein humzinda hain.... bas..... jee rahe hain. Koi maqsad, koi plan nahin. We live our lives just one day after another, no plans no direction.Ambition is a dirty word, we must never use it. Let alone act on it. Take your brother for example: the poor guy was good at studying bichara.....Upar se ambitious, so he worked really hard to get good grades.Then people started asking him to give tuition to less capable individuals. If they pass, they worked hard. But if they fail, he was held accountable. Then he still manages to study with all this pressure, and get a good job.Ab it is HIS responsibilty to feed, clothe, pay for fees, etc for half your (lazy and bichari majboor Family) until kingdom come. Who will pay for your sister's wedding? Of course he will. Who will have to make all the arrangements? He will.
Reasons given are:
-They are just not as able as you are
- He didn't study like you, so he can't get a good job, so instead of working to his abilities, he stays at home!
- You handle everything so well!
- woh to meri baat nahin sunta, tum to mere ache bete hoo na. etc etc
About you everyone will say:
- Everyone will say ooh.... woh bichara... parne mein thora kamzoor tha
- Chalo ghar ke kaam mein bara haath batata hai
- Usko to mauka hi nahin mila...
- naukri ke liye to aaj kal B.A. bhi degree koi ahmityat nahin rakti hai...etc etc
What if everyone worked how much they could? So if he is a Doctor and you are a Plumber? So what?!! I'd rather be a brother who is a plumber than one who is a good for nothing! What if I tried and started driving a cab. Or began a business from a thela? At least I would pull my own weight. Still bhai would have to help me but not as much as before. This would mean we could still live together, each living with dignity and support, emotionaly as well as financialy!
Woh kamae aur hum sab mil ke khai. wouldn't it be better agar SAB kamae aur sab mil ke khai, kuch bachaen,kuch urain? Bechargi choro aur kuch kar ke dikhao! Do what you can do, aur baqi sab Allah pe chhordo!
Reasons given are:
-They are just not as able as you are
- He didn't study like you, so he can't get a good job, so instead of working to his abilities, he stays at home!
- You handle everything so well!
- woh to meri baat nahin sunta, tum to mere ache bete hoo na. etc etc
About you everyone will say:
- Everyone will say ooh.... woh bichara... parne mein thora kamzoor tha
- Chalo ghar ke kaam mein bara haath batata hai
- Usko to mauka hi nahin mila...
- naukri ke liye to aaj kal B.A. bhi degree koi ahmityat nahin rakti hai...etc etc
What if everyone worked how much they could? So if he is a Doctor and you are a Plumber? So what?!! I'd rather be a brother who is a plumber than one who is a good for nothing! What if I tried and started driving a cab. Or began a business from a thela? At least I would pull my own weight. Still bhai would have to help me but not as much as before. This would mean we could still live together, each living with dignity and support, emotionaly as well as financialy!
Woh kamae aur hum sab mil ke khai. wouldn't it be better agar SAB kamae aur sab mil ke khai, kuch bachaen,kuch urain? Bechargi choro aur kuch kar ke dikhao! Do what you can do, aur baqi sab Allah pe chhordo!
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well said ...apna apna bojh khud uthao.....kisi ki himmat zyada hai to is ko thora zyada de do..................maghar sara bojh dal ker bechary ko maar mat dalo yaar...................after all HE is not a gadha(khota)
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